ERICA: My wedding and I seem to be avoiding each other. We haven’t gotten into a fight and I don’t harbor any ill will, it’s just a lull in our relationship. I’m sort of over the whole planning thing. I’m over searching for new great, never before seen (INSERT: favors, jewelry, bouquet ideas, bridal party gifts as you see fit), I’ve lost all dieting motivation and we still haven’t finished up planning our honeymoon. I’ve caught a “wedding ennui” bug and don’t know how to get rid of it.