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		<title>Female Writers  Figure Out How to Feel About Eat, Pray, Love</title>

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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Aug 2010 18:37:53 -0400</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://nyoobserver.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/eat_pray_love.jpg?w=195&h=300" />As the <em>Eat, Pray, Love </em>movie approaches, female writers (memoir writers especially) get to take a break from <a href="http://htmlgiant.com/web-hype/where-did-the-women-folk-get-the-idea-that-writing-about-their-lives-might-be-interesting/" target="_blank">swatting down </a><em>Sex and the City</em> <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/2010/aug/01/emily-gould-meghan-daum-confessional" target="_blank">comparisons</a> and turn their wary gaze to Elizabeth Gilbert. Are self-deprecating personal growth stories <a href="http://nymag.com/arts/books/features/65591/index1.html" target="_blank">necessarily a good thing</a>? Is Gilbert the <a href="http://jezebel.com/5602618/lisbeth-salander-is-the-antidote-to-elizabeth-gilbert" target="_blank">anti-<em>Girl With the Dragon Tattoo</em></a>? How should we all feel about <em>Eat, Pray, Love</em>'s success, anyway?</p>
<p>Jessica Olien went to the heart of <em>Eat, Pray, Love</em> territory&mdash;Bali&mdash;and found herself <a href="http://www.salon.com/life/life_stories/index.html?story=/mwt/feature/2010/08/06/my_eat_pray_love_adventure" target="_blank">pulling an Elizabeth Gilbert</a>. Despite disdaining the "caftan-wearing women" who travel alongside her, Olien lives out their dream and finds romance with a Dutch man named Jorick. She and Jorick ride motorbikes through the island paradise and have lots of sex. Olien becomes "completely, embarrassingly Gilbert-like." She comes to terms with this, however:</p>
<blockquote><p>It is only when I arrive home that I fully comprehend the irony of the past month: Cynical writer goes to Bali to make fun of Elizabeth Gilbert wannabes only to become perhaps her closest emulator.</p>
<p>I feel stabs of guilt for being so harsh on those women, searching the island for their romantic bliss. Who am I to laugh at their longing? By all means, ladies, come to Bali, I want to tell anyone within smiling distance. Find a wonderful man in a wonderful place. But if I could tell those women one more thing, it would be that maybe they should stop looking so hard. Because if there's a romantic clich&eacute; that's held true -- for Elizabeth Gilbert, and now, for me -- it's that bliss usually happens when you aren't hunting it down.</p>
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<p>She says she doesn't expect a book deal out of her adventure, but she has gotten some mileage out of chronicling it online. Recently, she <a href="http://jezebel.com/5601522/how-elizabeth-gilbert-ruined-bali" target="_blank">wrote for Jezebel </a>about how <em>Eat, Pray, Love </em>"ruined" Bali.</p>
<p>On HuffPo, Lea Lane seems <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lea-lane/eat-pray-scratch_b_673237.html" target="_blank">faintly irritated</a> that Gilbert gets all the attention:</p>
<blockquote><p>My book <em>Solo Traveler</em> came out in 2005, not long before Elizabeth Gilbert's cult-inducing phenomenon. Like her, I wrote about the freedom and joys of traveling on your own, but emphasized I was not looking for love.</p>
<p>Besides selling reasonably well, my book spawned a website and a brand, and besides how-tos on eating alone and packing and such, included a couple dozen personal essays, including ones set in Italy, India and Bali. I can't complain.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Well, if pressed, perhaps she can complain: turns out she too went to Bali all she got were bug bites. Her loins burned not with passion but with fire ants.</p>
<p>And Emily Gould <a href="http://thingsiatethatilove.tumblr.com/post/908056305/not-to-be-censorial-but-i-really-disapprove-of" target="_blank">cops to</a> an "obsession with the weirdly hamfisted EPL marketing and tie-ins." Which, indeed, are <a href="http://www.fresh.com/fragrance/eatpraylove" target="_blank">PRETTY WEIRD</a>&mdash;even when they aren't using bogus-seeming words like "sensorial."</p>
<p>Final verdict: <em>Eat, Pray... Sort of Like</em>?</p>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://nyoobserver.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/eat_pray_love.jpg?w=195&h=300" />As the <em>Eat, Pray, Love </em>movie approaches, female writers (memoir writers especially) get to take a break from <a href="http://htmlgiant.com/web-hype/where-did-the-women-folk-get-the-idea-that-writing-about-their-lives-might-be-interesting/" target="_blank">swatting down </a><em>Sex and the City</em> <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/2010/aug/01/emily-gould-meghan-daum-confessional" target="_blank">comparisons</a> and turn their wary gaze to Elizabeth Gilbert. Are self-deprecating personal growth stories <a href="http://nymag.com/arts/books/features/65591/index1.html" target="_blank">necessarily a good thing</a>? Is Gilbert the <a href="http://jezebel.com/5602618/lisbeth-salander-is-the-antidote-to-elizabeth-gilbert" target="_blank">anti-<em>Girl With the Dragon Tattoo</em></a>? How should we all feel about <em>Eat, Pray, Love</em>'s success, anyway?</p>
<p>Jessica Olien went to the heart of <em>Eat, Pray, Love</em> territory&mdash;Bali&mdash;and found herself <a href="http://www.salon.com/life/life_stories/index.html?story=/mwt/feature/2010/08/06/my_eat_pray_love_adventure" target="_blank">pulling an Elizabeth Gilbert</a>. Despite disdaining the "caftan-wearing women" who travel alongside her, Olien lives out their dream and finds romance with a Dutch man named Jorick. She and Jorick ride motorbikes through the island paradise and have lots of sex. Olien becomes "completely, embarrassingly Gilbert-like." She comes to terms with this, however:</p>
<blockquote><p>It is only when I arrive home that I fully comprehend the irony of the past month: Cynical writer goes to Bali to make fun of Elizabeth Gilbert wannabes only to become perhaps her closest emulator.</p>
<p>I feel stabs of guilt for being so harsh on those women, searching the island for their romantic bliss. Who am I to laugh at their longing? By all means, ladies, come to Bali, I want to tell anyone within smiling distance. Find a wonderful man in a wonderful place. But if I could tell those women one more thing, it would be that maybe they should stop looking so hard. Because if there's a romantic clich&eacute; that's held true -- for Elizabeth Gilbert, and now, for me -- it's that bliss usually happens when you aren't hunting it down.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>She says she doesn't expect a book deal out of her adventure, but she has gotten some mileage out of chronicling it online. Recently, she <a href="http://jezebel.com/5601522/how-elizabeth-gilbert-ruined-bali" target="_blank">wrote for Jezebel </a>about how <em>Eat, Pray, Love </em>"ruined" Bali.</p>
<p>On HuffPo, Lea Lane seems <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lea-lane/eat-pray-scratch_b_673237.html" target="_blank">faintly irritated</a> that Gilbert gets all the attention:</p>
<blockquote><p>My book <em>Solo Traveler</em> came out in 2005, not long before Elizabeth Gilbert's cult-inducing phenomenon. Like her, I wrote about the freedom and joys of traveling on your own, but emphasized I was not looking for love.</p>
<p>Besides selling reasonably well, my book spawned a website and a brand, and besides how-tos on eating alone and packing and such, included a couple dozen personal essays, including ones set in Italy, India and Bali. I can't complain.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Well, if pressed, perhaps she can complain: turns out she too went to Bali all she got were bug bites. Her loins burned not with passion but with fire ants.</p>
<p>And Emily Gould <a href="http://thingsiatethatilove.tumblr.com/post/908056305/not-to-be-censorial-but-i-really-disapprove-of" target="_blank">cops to</a> an "obsession with the weirdly hamfisted EPL marketing and tie-ins." Which, indeed, are <a href="http://www.fresh.com/fragrance/eatpraylove" target="_blank">PRETTY WEIRD</a>&mdash;even when they aren't using bogus-seeming words like "sensorial."</p>
<p>Final verdict: <em>Eat, Pray... Sort of Like</em>?</p>
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