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		<title>When Dating Online, It Helps If Some People Find You Ugly</title>

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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://nyoobserver.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/okcupid-data.jpg?w=300&h=205" />Anyone who has tried online dating knows the stress of picking out a profile picture. What combination of eye contact, cleavage and lighting will inspire new suitors?&nbsp;</p>
<p>In the latest installment of <a href="http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-mathematics-of-beauty/">OkCupid's dating research, The Mathematics of Beauty</a>, the site reveals a few fascinating trends they observed about dating success.</p>
<p>Turns out raw beauty isn't the best metric. In fact, the more men disagree about a woman's looks, the more likely she is to be contacted for dates. The research finds that women who are considered ugly by some users have a better chance of attracting dates than women who are considered cute by nearly everyone.&nbsp;</p>
<p>What's going on here? Could be a little gamesmanship at work.</p>
<p>If men see a profile of a user and everyone else thinks she's hot, they assume chances are pretty slim she'll pick them for a suitor.</p>
<p>But if guys see a girl who they think is cute, but who seems undervalued by others, they sense an opportunity.&nbsp;</p>
<p>It could also be evidence that some men are strongly attracted to particular traits that the general population doesn't find attractive.</p>
<p>OkCupid's advice for the ladies? Take your flaws and play them up. The negative reaction you get from some users will only work to your advantage.&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>bpopper at observer dot com - @benpopper</strong></p>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://nyoobserver.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/okcupid-data.jpg?w=300&h=205" />Anyone who has tried online dating knows the stress of picking out a profile picture. What combination of eye contact, cleavage and lighting will inspire new suitors?&nbsp;</p>
<p>In the latest installment of <a href="http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-mathematics-of-beauty/">OkCupid's dating research, The Mathematics of Beauty</a>, the site reveals a few fascinating trends they observed about dating success.</p>
<p>Turns out raw beauty isn't the best metric. In fact, the more men disagree about a woman's looks, the more likely she is to be contacted for dates. The research finds that women who are considered ugly by some users have a better chance of attracting dates than women who are considered cute by nearly everyone.&nbsp;</p>
<p>What's going on here? Could be a little gamesmanship at work.</p>
<p>If men see a profile of a user and everyone else thinks she's hot, they assume chances are pretty slim she'll pick them for a suitor.</p>
<p>But if guys see a girl who they think is cute, but who seems undervalued by others, they sense an opportunity.&nbsp;</p>
<p>It could also be evidence that some men are strongly attracted to particular traits that the general population doesn't find attractive.</p>
<p>OkCupid's advice for the ladies? Take your flaws and play them up. The negative reaction you get from some users will only work to your advantage.&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>bpopper at observer dot com - @benpopper</strong></p>
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