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		<title>It&#8217;s a Look: A Heart-to-Heart With Man Repeller, Fashion&#8217;s New Ick Girl</title>

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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://nyoobserver.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/screen-shot-2011-02-07-at-2-23-53-pm.png?w=300&h=266" />At the three shows she attended during last September's New York Fashion Week, a then-21-year-old New Yorker named Leandra Medine was, for the most part, an innocent bystander. A year and 10,000 Twitter followers later, Medine--now better known as the Man Repeller, after her <a href="http://manrepeller.com/">blog by the same name</a>--will be shoulder pads-deep in the action. During the last nine months, blogging from her parents' apartment on the Upper East Side, Medine has staked out a spot in the fashion world as head cheerleader for style choices that offend delicate sensibilities of the opposite sex--which she has dubbed "sartorial contraceptives." The more fashion-forward the look, the theory goes, the more sexually unappealing it tends to be.</p>
<p>[<strong><a href="/2011/slideshow/man-repeller" target="_blank">See Ten Guaranteed Man Repelling Must Haves &gt;&gt;</a></strong>]</p>
<p>As she prepped for this season's Fashion Week--otherwise known as the Man-Repelling Olympics--Medine spoke to <em>The Observer</em> about fan mail, Shabbat and going "full-out jeg."&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>You've spent your whole life in New York. Ever think about living somewhere else?<br /></strong>I was abroad in Paris and I absolutely loved it. I had the best five months of my life. And I visited a ton of cities--I went to Stockholm, I went to Spain, I went all over. But the only place in Europe where I was, like, <em>Wow, I could see myself living here and being happy,</em> was London. I would move to London if I had to.</p>
<p><strong>How do you compare Paris to New York through the lens of man repelling?<br /></strong>The entire concept manifested itself while I was in Paris--that's where I really realized I was a man repeller. Like, in the middle of Fashion Week, we're leaving one of the after parties and I'm with two of my friends and we're looking for a cab and it's impossible to find a cab late at night in Paris. And I look at myself and I'm like, "I'm wearing high-waisted denim cutoffs with ruffles on the bottom and a shoulder-padded shirt that would put Pierre Balmain to shame. What is wrong with me?" I think I took a lot more creative license with the way I dressed over there--I think anyone does that when they're not in their own hometown. I wasn't afraid to run into people that I knew.</p>
<p><strong>Do you ever wake up and think, "I just want to be conventionally sexy for today?"<br /></strong>Not really. You know what the thing is? It's not that I necessarily want to man-repel, but I stray away from being generic. To me, adding layers and not looking like a mannequin turns out to repel men because it's not easily comprehensible.</p>
<p><strong>You must occasionally find yourself in a situation where you have to dress conventionally. </strong><br />Well, I mean, this past Saturday night I had a wedding at the Plaza, so I wore a silk Peter Som skirt and a plain white tank, an open-backed tank. A ton of girls I didn't know rushed over to me and they were like, "You're not man repelling! Oh my god! Is that a man next to you? What's going on?" I'm like, "Relax, that's my brother, number one. Number two, we're at The Plaza."</p>
<p><strong>Is there anything that you see girls wearing all the time that you just wish would go away?</strong><br />I mean, a lot of fashion I wish would just go away, although I don't take it so offensively. Like, I don't have clogs, I've never bought clogs, I never really gave into the clogs. But I never hated it so much that I wanted it to go away. I don't know, I try to see the positive motive behind every trend. I think Crocs are insulting. I think it's offensive when people wear Crocs and Snuggies, but those aren't really trends.</p>
<p><strong>What's your position on jeggings?</strong><br />I like the name. I own a few pairs, but I think they suck. I think they're so stupid. Just buy a jean with a little spandex in them, you don't need to go full-out jeg.</p>
<p><strong>And leggings as pants? </strong><br />I guess that's a trend that I wish would go away. You know, it was cool for a minute in, like, 2008, but then it became--it looks like you forgot to get dressed on the bottom. It's like going out unfinished. I do hate that trend, actually. I hate it so much, especially now, because tailored trousers are so in. Leggings are just so off from what chic could be, or is.</p>
<p><strong>Turning the tables a little bit, what lady-repelling looks have men adopted?</strong><br />People keep telling me that I should start a Woman Repeller, but dissecting men's fashion is just not as interesting. There aren't very many men's fashion blogs, and there's a reason for that. But I would say that that I hate sneakers with formal wear, square-toed shoes, athletic socks with dress shoes, ill-fitting jeans, boxy jean jackets. I don't like cowboy boots on men, I hate short-sleeved button-ups.</p>
<p><strong>What celebrity is most your type?</strong><br />Ryan Gosling.</p>
<p><strong>He's so cute.</strong><br />He's adorable.</p>
<p><strong>Do you ever get any creepy e-mails from guys who've seen your site?</strong><br />Yes! Yes, I do. I actually just got a funny one from this guy in Canada. He was like, "I think you're super beautiful and even though you're a man repeller, I wanna date you." I answer all my e-mails, so I just replied, "That's really flattering." And so he wrote back, "It seems like you're interested, so let me tell you about myself. I'm a 29-year old aspiring teacher living at home with my parents in Toronto." I was like, all right!</p>
<p><!--nextpage--><strong>You're like, "I'm moving out there immediately."</strong><br />Yeah, right. And sometimes I get e-mails from men saying, "How could you do this to my girlfriend?" That's also funny. One guy even proposed to me via Twitter.</p>
<p><strong>So are you dating anyone? </strong><br />I don't comment on my relationship status vis &agrave; vis the blog.</p>
<p><strong>Do you think of Man Repeller in political terms at all?&nbsp;</strong><br />I didn't neccesarily aim for the blog to make any sort of feministic statement, but I did want it to serve as an open forum for women to draw their own conclusions, whether it be something as simple as "This is what I want to wear tomorrow" or a more complex millennial statement about women, fashion, men and feminism.</p>
<p><strong>What's the garment that you think men hate the most?</strong><br />I think that the harem pant is particularly offensive. That has to be the worst, because pants are usually a really good way to show a woman's silhouette. If she has really nice legs, you can see them in her pants. That alone annoys a man, because he'd rather see her in a short skirt, and so for the pants to be harem-style--with a crotch so low that, from the back it looks like she's wearing a dirty diaper and from the front you're like, "Is she wearing a long skirt or is she wearing pants?"&mdash;it kind of confuses them. And it makes her look 15 pounds heavier.</p>
<p><strong>On the other hand, is there anything that seems man repelling that you think they secretly like? </strong><br />I thought that red lipstick was a definite man repeller, and though men say that it gives off this bitchy, unkissable vibe, it's really sexy to see. So that was interesting for me.</p>
<p><strong>You're 22. What's your typical weekend like?</strong><br />I don't go out that much. My family's Jewish, so I do Shabbat dinner with my family on Friday nights. Saturday night I'll go out--I'm a big fan of the Jane. I'm not a club-goer, although I do like to dance. But definitely more of a go-to-the-bar, have-a-drink, go-home type of girl. I haven't lived with my parents all this time. I had an apartment the first two years of college, and my friends used to make fun of me. They were like, "Why do you have this self-inflicted two a.m. curfew? No one is telling you to be home by two." And I'd be like, "Guys it's getting late, I have to go home, I have to go home." Because nothing is worse than a hungover Sunday when you have so much stuff to do.</p>
<p><strong>What's your go-to drink?</strong><br />Always a tequila with lime juice. Gets you drunk really fast.</p>
<p><strong>So you live on the Upper East Side&mdash;not exactly a hotbed of man-repelling outfits. What neighborhoods do you frequent for inspiration?<br /></strong>I was at <a href="http://thesmilenyc.com/">The Smile</a> yesterday for brunch and I was like, "This is where man repeller meets hipster meets 'I shouldn't hang out anywhere else.'" So I would say, that exact spot. I think it's on Bond between Lafayette and Mulberry? Something like that. Because of that restaurant, The Smile--and it's right next door to Oak--I feel like that neighborhood has a really high concentration of super stylish, unique-personal-style girls. It's beautiful.</p>
<p><strong>What about Bedford Ave. in Williamsburg?</strong><br />I guess I'm not that familiar with it, because I don't venture to Brooklyn that often, even though every time I go I'm like, I have to hang out here more often. But from what I've gathered, it's not that different from Lower East Side fashion, which is sort of what I try to incorporate into my look. Because even though I live uptown, it always annoys me when people are like, "Oh, you're not a hipster, you're not supposed to be dressing like that." I'm like, "It's my life, I can dress however I want, 'k?"</p>
<p><strong>You've got one semester left at the New School. Has it been hard to keep up with classes?<br /></strong>Yeah, last semester, especially toward the end, I felt like I was hanging on by such a loose thread. I literally did enough to get by, and that's it, you know? I'm so nervous that I'm not going to graduate on time, and I only have one semester left, so it's totally outrageous if I can't. I just have to finish my senior thesis and then I'm done, but I do have to remind myself that my education comes before the blog.</p>
<p><strong>What are your plans for Fashion Week?</strong><br />I was invited to be on this <em>Teen Vogue</em> blogger panel in Vegas that's smack in the middle of Fashion Week. And I spoke to a few of my friends who are immersed in the industry, and every single one of them was like, "You <em>cannot</em> go to Vegas for this panel. This is a huge Fashion Week for you." I've already been receiving some Save the Dates and such, so I'm going to stay. But I mean, I've realized Fashion Weeks are like the two weeks out of every year when <a href="http://style.com/">Style.com</a> gets a million page views and my blog has like, no hits. Last year, I was like, "Oh my god, no! People are sick of the Man Repeller!"</p>
<p><strong>They'll come back.</strong><br />Hope so. Also, I forgot to mention--I'm styling <a href="http://kimberlytaylor.com/">a friend of mine</a>'s Fashion Week presentation. So that's probably going to be the highlight of my week.&nbsp;</p>
<p>[<strong><a href="/2011/slideshow/man-repeller" target="_blank">See Ten Guaranteed Man Repelling Must Haves &gt;&gt;</a></strong>]</p>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://nyoobserver.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/screen-shot-2011-02-07-at-2-23-53-pm.png?w=300&h=266" />At the three shows she attended during last September's New York Fashion Week, a then-21-year-old New Yorker named Leandra Medine was, for the most part, an innocent bystander. A year and 10,000 Twitter followers later, Medine--now better known as the Man Repeller, after her <a href="http://manrepeller.com/">blog by the same name</a>--will be shoulder pads-deep in the action. During the last nine months, blogging from her parents' apartment on the Upper East Side, Medine has staked out a spot in the fashion world as head cheerleader for style choices that offend delicate sensibilities of the opposite sex--which she has dubbed "sartorial contraceptives." The more fashion-forward the look, the theory goes, the more sexually unappealing it tends to be.</p>
<p>[<strong><a href="/2011/slideshow/man-repeller" target="_blank">See Ten Guaranteed Man Repelling Must Haves &gt;&gt;</a></strong>]</p>
<p>As she prepped for this season's Fashion Week--otherwise known as the Man-Repelling Olympics--Medine spoke to <em>The Observer</em> about fan mail, Shabbat and going "full-out jeg."&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>You've spent your whole life in New York. Ever think about living somewhere else?<br /></strong>I was abroad in Paris and I absolutely loved it. I had the best five months of my life. And I visited a ton of cities--I went to Stockholm, I went to Spain, I went all over. But the only place in Europe where I was, like, <em>Wow, I could see myself living here and being happy,</em> was London. I would move to London if I had to.</p>
<p><strong>How do you compare Paris to New York through the lens of man repelling?<br /></strong>The entire concept manifested itself while I was in Paris--that's where I really realized I was a man repeller. Like, in the middle of Fashion Week, we're leaving one of the after parties and I'm with two of my friends and we're looking for a cab and it's impossible to find a cab late at night in Paris. And I look at myself and I'm like, "I'm wearing high-waisted denim cutoffs with ruffles on the bottom and a shoulder-padded shirt that would put Pierre Balmain to shame. What is wrong with me?" I think I took a lot more creative license with the way I dressed over there--I think anyone does that when they're not in their own hometown. I wasn't afraid to run into people that I knew.</p>
<p><strong>Do you ever wake up and think, "I just want to be conventionally sexy for today?"<br /></strong>Not really. You know what the thing is? It's not that I necessarily want to man-repel, but I stray away from being generic. To me, adding layers and not looking like a mannequin turns out to repel men because it's not easily comprehensible.</p>
<p><strong>You must occasionally find yourself in a situation where you have to dress conventionally. </strong><br />Well, I mean, this past Saturday night I had a wedding at the Plaza, so I wore a silk Peter Som skirt and a plain white tank, an open-backed tank. A ton of girls I didn't know rushed over to me and they were like, "You're not man repelling! Oh my god! Is that a man next to you? What's going on?" I'm like, "Relax, that's my brother, number one. Number two, we're at The Plaza."</p>
<p><strong>Is there anything that you see girls wearing all the time that you just wish would go away?</strong><br />I mean, a lot of fashion I wish would just go away, although I don't take it so offensively. Like, I don't have clogs, I've never bought clogs, I never really gave into the clogs. But I never hated it so much that I wanted it to go away. I don't know, I try to see the positive motive behind every trend. I think Crocs are insulting. I think it's offensive when people wear Crocs and Snuggies, but those aren't really trends.</p>
<p><strong>What's your position on jeggings?</strong><br />I like the name. I own a few pairs, but I think they suck. I think they're so stupid. Just buy a jean with a little spandex in them, you don't need to go full-out jeg.</p>
<p><strong>And leggings as pants? </strong><br />I guess that's a trend that I wish would go away. You know, it was cool for a minute in, like, 2008, but then it became--it looks like you forgot to get dressed on the bottom. It's like going out unfinished. I do hate that trend, actually. I hate it so much, especially now, because tailored trousers are so in. Leggings are just so off from what chic could be, or is.</p>
<p><strong>Turning the tables a little bit, what lady-repelling looks have men adopted?</strong><br />People keep telling me that I should start a Woman Repeller, but dissecting men's fashion is just not as interesting. There aren't very many men's fashion blogs, and there's a reason for that. But I would say that that I hate sneakers with formal wear, square-toed shoes, athletic socks with dress shoes, ill-fitting jeans, boxy jean jackets. I don't like cowboy boots on men, I hate short-sleeved button-ups.</p>
<p><strong>What celebrity is most your type?</strong><br />Ryan Gosling.</p>
<p><strong>He's so cute.</strong><br />He's adorable.</p>
<p><strong>Do you ever get any creepy e-mails from guys who've seen your site?</strong><br />Yes! Yes, I do. I actually just got a funny one from this guy in Canada. He was like, "I think you're super beautiful and even though you're a man repeller, I wanna date you." I answer all my e-mails, so I just replied, "That's really flattering." And so he wrote back, "It seems like you're interested, so let me tell you about myself. I'm a 29-year old aspiring teacher living at home with my parents in Toronto." I was like, all right!</p>
<p><!--nextpage--><strong>You're like, "I'm moving out there immediately."</strong><br />Yeah, right. And sometimes I get e-mails from men saying, "How could you do this to my girlfriend?" That's also funny. One guy even proposed to me via Twitter.</p>
<p><strong>So are you dating anyone? </strong><br />I don't comment on my relationship status vis &agrave; vis the blog.</p>
<p><strong>Do you think of Man Repeller in political terms at all?&nbsp;</strong><br />I didn't neccesarily aim for the blog to make any sort of feministic statement, but I did want it to serve as an open forum for women to draw their own conclusions, whether it be something as simple as "This is what I want to wear tomorrow" or a more complex millennial statement about women, fashion, men and feminism.</p>
<p><strong>What's the garment that you think men hate the most?</strong><br />I think that the harem pant is particularly offensive. That has to be the worst, because pants are usually a really good way to show a woman's silhouette. If she has really nice legs, you can see them in her pants. That alone annoys a man, because he'd rather see her in a short skirt, and so for the pants to be harem-style--with a crotch so low that, from the back it looks like she's wearing a dirty diaper and from the front you're like, "Is she wearing a long skirt or is she wearing pants?"&mdash;it kind of confuses them. And it makes her look 15 pounds heavier.</p>
<p><strong>On the other hand, is there anything that seems man repelling that you think they secretly like? </strong><br />I thought that red lipstick was a definite man repeller, and though men say that it gives off this bitchy, unkissable vibe, it's really sexy to see. So that was interesting for me.</p>
<p><strong>You're 22. What's your typical weekend like?</strong><br />I don't go out that much. My family's Jewish, so I do Shabbat dinner with my family on Friday nights. Saturday night I'll go out--I'm a big fan of the Jane. I'm not a club-goer, although I do like to dance. But definitely more of a go-to-the-bar, have-a-drink, go-home type of girl. I haven't lived with my parents all this time. I had an apartment the first two years of college, and my friends used to make fun of me. They were like, "Why do you have this self-inflicted two a.m. curfew? No one is telling you to be home by two." And I'd be like, "Guys it's getting late, I have to go home, I have to go home." Because nothing is worse than a hungover Sunday when you have so much stuff to do.</p>
<p><strong>What's your go-to drink?</strong><br />Always a tequila with lime juice. Gets you drunk really fast.</p>
<p><strong>So you live on the Upper East Side&mdash;not exactly a hotbed of man-repelling outfits. What neighborhoods do you frequent for inspiration?<br /></strong>I was at <a href="http://thesmilenyc.com/">The Smile</a> yesterday for brunch and I was like, "This is where man repeller meets hipster meets 'I shouldn't hang out anywhere else.'" So I would say, that exact spot. I think it's on Bond between Lafayette and Mulberry? Something like that. Because of that restaurant, The Smile--and it's right next door to Oak--I feel like that neighborhood has a really high concentration of super stylish, unique-personal-style girls. It's beautiful.</p>
<p><strong>What about Bedford Ave. in Williamsburg?</strong><br />I guess I'm not that familiar with it, because I don't venture to Brooklyn that often, even though every time I go I'm like, I have to hang out here more often. But from what I've gathered, it's not that different from Lower East Side fashion, which is sort of what I try to incorporate into my look. Because even though I live uptown, it always annoys me when people are like, "Oh, you're not a hipster, you're not supposed to be dressing like that." I'm like, "It's my life, I can dress however I want, 'k?"</p>
<p><strong>You've got one semester left at the New School. Has it been hard to keep up with classes?<br /></strong>Yeah, last semester, especially toward the end, I felt like I was hanging on by such a loose thread. I literally did enough to get by, and that's it, you know? I'm so nervous that I'm not going to graduate on time, and I only have one semester left, so it's totally outrageous if I can't. I just have to finish my senior thesis and then I'm done, but I do have to remind myself that my education comes before the blog.</p>
<p><strong>What are your plans for Fashion Week?</strong><br />I was invited to be on this <em>Teen Vogue</em> blogger panel in Vegas that's smack in the middle of Fashion Week. And I spoke to a few of my friends who are immersed in the industry, and every single one of them was like, "You <em>cannot</em> go to Vegas for this panel. This is a huge Fashion Week for you." I've already been receiving some Save the Dates and such, so I'm going to stay. But I mean, I've realized Fashion Weeks are like the two weeks out of every year when <a href="http://style.com/">Style.com</a> gets a million page views and my blog has like, no hits. Last year, I was like, "Oh my god, no! People are sick of the Man Repeller!"</p>
<p><strong>They'll come back.</strong><br />Hope so. Also, I forgot to mention--I'm styling <a href="http://kimberlytaylor.com/">a friend of mine</a>'s Fashion Week presentation. So that's probably going to be the highlight of my week.&nbsp;</p>
<p>[<strong><a href="/2011/slideshow/man-repeller" target="_blank">See Ten Guaranteed Man Repelling Must Haves &gt;&gt;</a></strong>]</p>
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