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		<title>Cardinal Dolan&#8217;s Speech Changes Irk Gay Catholics</title>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Sep 2012 13:39:17 -0400</pubDate>
					<link>http://observer.com/2012/09/cardinal-dolans-speech-changes-irk-gay-catholics/</link>
			<dc:creator>Christopher Brennan</dc:creator>
				
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_261846" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://observer.com/2012/09/cardinal-dolans-speech-changes-irk-gay-catholics/obama-accepts-nomination-on-final-day-of-democratic-national-convention/" rel="attachment wp-att-261846"><img class="size-medium wp-image-261846" title="dolan" alt="" src="http://nyoobserver.files.wordpress.com/2012/09/dolan.jpg?w=300" height="200" width="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Cardinal Dolan.</p></div></p>
<p>Though the Catholic Church may not be known for its quickness, Cardinal Timothy Dolan made a few changes to his political prayer in the week between the Republican and Democratic National Conventions. Dolan’s Democratic prayer largely mirrored the words he gave to Mitt Romney and company at the Republican National Convention last week, with a few tweaks that injected a little bit of the pastor’s politics.</p>
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<p>Most notably, he poked at the Dems' pro-choice platform, praying, “We ask your benediction on those waiting to be born, that they may be welcomed and protected,” adding “that they may be welcomed and protected” from his Republican blessing. Conservative bloggers and Tweeters celebrated the speech as pro-life.</p>
<p>He also echoed his Republican speech calling for “respecting the laws of nature and of nature’s God,” asking for help to “resist the temptation to replace the moral law with idols of our own making, or to remake those institutions you have given us for the nurturing of life and community.”</p>
<p>Dolan said on his Twitter account yesterday before the prayer, “As I did at the RNC, I go as a pastor. Not to endorse any party, platform, or candidate."</p>
<p>In addition to his reference to abortion, analysts have interpreted one of those life and community institutions that shouldn’t be remodeled as strictly heterosexual marriage. Dolan had come out against the Albany bill that passed same sex marriage last summer.</p>
<p>While the pastor’s politics may have been in code, members of the Catholic gay community took notice of the remarks. “I think he alluded to the institution of marriage,” said Francis DeBernardo, executive director of New Ways Ministry, an organization for Catholic gay and lesbian issues founded in 1977. He continued “I think what [Dolan] fails to grasp is that marriage equality laws do not remake the institution of marriage, but they simply expand the institution to people who want to commit in love to one another and these laws carefully protect all families in society.”</p>
<p>Jeff Stone, a spokesman for local Catholic LGBT group Dignity New York, feels a split between the cardinal and ordinary Catholics on gay marriage. “It’s a position that’s at odds with most ordinary Catholics now.” Mr. Stone preferred the DNC speech of Sister Simone Campbell, the director of Catholic social justice organization Network, who denounced vice presidential candidate Paul Ryan’s budget. “I think she exemplifies the split between the Catholic hierarchy and the ordinary Catholic.”</p>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_261846" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://observer.com/2012/09/cardinal-dolans-speech-changes-irk-gay-catholics/obama-accepts-nomination-on-final-day-of-democratic-national-convention/" rel="attachment wp-att-261846"><img class="size-medium wp-image-261846" title="dolan" alt="" src="http://nyoobserver.files.wordpress.com/2012/09/dolan.jpg?w=300" height="200" width="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Cardinal Dolan.</p></div></p>
<p>Though the Catholic Church may not be known for its quickness, Cardinal Timothy Dolan made a few changes to his political prayer in the week between the Republican and Democratic National Conventions. Dolan’s Democratic prayer largely mirrored the words he gave to Mitt Romney and company at the Republican National Convention last week, with a few tweaks that injected a little bit of the pastor’s politics.</p>
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<p>Most notably, he poked at the Dems' pro-choice platform, praying, “We ask your benediction on those waiting to be born, that they may be welcomed and protected,” adding “that they may be welcomed and protected” from his Republican blessing. Conservative bloggers and Tweeters celebrated the speech as pro-life.</p>
<p>He also echoed his Republican speech calling for “respecting the laws of nature and of nature’s God,” asking for help to “resist the temptation to replace the moral law with idols of our own making, or to remake those institutions you have given us for the nurturing of life and community.”</p>
<p>Dolan said on his Twitter account yesterday before the prayer, “As I did at the RNC, I go as a pastor. Not to endorse any party, platform, or candidate."</p>
<p>In addition to his reference to abortion, analysts have interpreted one of those life and community institutions that shouldn’t be remodeled as strictly heterosexual marriage. Dolan had come out against the Albany bill that passed same sex marriage last summer.</p>
<p>While the pastor’s politics may have been in code, members of the Catholic gay community took notice of the remarks. “I think he alluded to the institution of marriage,” said Francis DeBernardo, executive director of New Ways Ministry, an organization for Catholic gay and lesbian issues founded in 1977. He continued “I think what [Dolan] fails to grasp is that marriage equality laws do not remake the institution of marriage, but they simply expand the institution to people who want to commit in love to one another and these laws carefully protect all families in society.”</p>
<p>Jeff Stone, a spokesman for local Catholic LGBT group Dignity New York, feels a split between the cardinal and ordinary Catholics on gay marriage. “It’s a position that’s at odds with most ordinary Catholics now.” Mr. Stone preferred the DNC speech of Sister Simone Campbell, the director of Catholic social justice organization Network, who denounced vice presidential candidate Paul Ryan’s budget. “I think she exemplifies the split between the Catholic hierarchy and the ordinary Catholic.”</p>
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		<title>Midtown Eatery Schnipper&#8217;s Establishes Self as Anti-Chick-Fil-A With Equality Sandwich</title>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jul 2012 18:40:13 -0400</pubDate>
					<link>http://observer.com/2012/07/midtown-eatery-schnippers-establishes-self-as-anti-chick-fil-a-with-equality-sandwich/</link>
			<dc:creator>Daniel D'Addario</dc:creator>
				
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://observer.com/2012/07/midtown-eatery-schnippers-establishes-self-as-anti-chick-fil-a-with-equality-sandwich/dj-schnipper-blogspan/" rel="attachment wp-att-255086"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-255086" title="Schnippers" src="http://nyoobserver.files.wordpress.com/2012/07/dj-schnipper-blogspan.jpg?w=300" alt="" width="300" height="213" /></a><a href="http://ny.eater.com/archives/2012/07/schnippers_offers_progay_marriage_chicken_sandwich.php">Eater reports that Schnipper's,</a> the <em>Times </em>building stalwart for meticulously prepared sandwiches and Elaine Benes-sized sandwiches, has struck back at Chick-Fil-A and its funding of antigay organizations. Schnipper's is to donate $1 from the sale of any chicken filet sandwich this August to Marriage Equality USA, a move that would seem to vastly decrease their bottom line--until you consider the influx of new, equality-minded customers who won't be able to resist one of those expensive vanilla honey milkshakes!</p>
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		<title>Gilt City Curator: &#039;Everyone Should Support&#039; Gay Marriage, $30,000 Gay-Wedding Deal a Hit</title>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2011 14:12:33 -0400</pubDate>
					<link>http://observer.com/2011/07/gilt-city-curator-everyone-should-support-gay-marriage-30000-gay-wedding-deal-a-hit/</link>
			<dc:creator>Daniel D'Addario</dc:creator>
				
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.giltcity.com/newyork">Gilt  City</a>, the discounts-in-daily-life-proferring arm of website Gilt  Groupe—which often offers coupons for dinners and pedicures, as well as  tickets to parties—recently offered a gay-marriage package in  celebration of New York’s new law. The deal was called <a href="http://www.giltcity.com/newyork/delpostoequality">“Del Posto  Celebrates Marriage Equality,”</a> an “Exclusive Same-Sex Wedding for 100  Guests.” It was offered for $30,000, the same rate Gilt City charged for <a href="http://www.giltcity.com/newyork/delpostowedding"> a recent Del Posto wedding package</a>, pre-marriage equality, for straight couples.</p>
<p>The  differences between the packages are instructive: the gay-marriage  package, which went on sale after gay marriage was legalized in New  York, in preparation for the soon-to-commence wave of legal gay  weddings, is listed as taking place in “Chelsea, Meatpacking District.”  The first photo in the slideshow is of generic stock-photo golden rings  instead of a red-on-white wedding tablescape.</p>
<p>“We  don’t ever disclose whether something’s sold or not,” said Sarah  Sheehan, market lead of the gay-marriage offer, “but we’re really  pleased with the way it’s turned out. We wanted to send the message that  we strongly support this law being passed and really celebrate equality  in a big way.” It helped that the original offer for weddings at Del  Posto, pre-marriage equality, had been a big success. “There were 100  people on the waitlist by the time it was over!” Ms. Sheehan disclosed.  As for whether any of those waitlisted straight couples could have taken  advantage of the gay marriage deal, Ms. Sheehan said: “We would have  opened it up to anyone—we can’t control it, the reason we did it and  branded it the way we did was just to be in support of the law.”</p>
<p>As  for whether they’d make political statements through their deals again,  Ms. Sheehan said: “I would say as a company we shy away from such  things. We’re not in the business of talking about issues—but in this  one case, we feel strongly.” She cited Gilt City’s president Nathan  Richardson, and his presence on The Observer’s New Power Gays list. “This is a very human issue. It’s about equality. Everyone should support this belief,” she said.</p>
<p>ddaddario@observer.com :: @DPD_</p>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.giltcity.com/newyork">Gilt  City</a>, the discounts-in-daily-life-proferring arm of website Gilt  Groupe—which often offers coupons for dinners and pedicures, as well as  tickets to parties—recently offered a gay-marriage package in  celebration of New York’s new law. The deal was called <a href="http://www.giltcity.com/newyork/delpostoequality">“Del Posto  Celebrates Marriage Equality,”</a> an “Exclusive Same-Sex Wedding for 100  Guests.” It was offered for $30,000, the same rate Gilt City charged for <a href="http://www.giltcity.com/newyork/delpostowedding"> a recent Del Posto wedding package</a>, pre-marriage equality, for straight couples.</p>
<p>The  differences between the packages are instructive: the gay-marriage  package, which went on sale after gay marriage was legalized in New  York, in preparation for the soon-to-commence wave of legal gay  weddings, is listed as taking place in “Chelsea, Meatpacking District.”  The first photo in the slideshow is of generic stock-photo golden rings  instead of a red-on-white wedding tablescape.</p>
<p>“We  don’t ever disclose whether something’s sold or not,” said Sarah  Sheehan, market lead of the gay-marriage offer, “but we’re really  pleased with the way it’s turned out. We wanted to send the message that  we strongly support this law being passed and really celebrate equality  in a big way.” It helped that the original offer for weddings at Del  Posto, pre-marriage equality, had been a big success. “There were 100  people on the waitlist by the time it was over!” Ms. Sheehan disclosed.  As for whether any of those waitlisted straight couples could have taken  advantage of the gay marriage deal, Ms. Sheehan said: “We would have  opened it up to anyone—we can’t control it, the reason we did it and  branded it the way we did was just to be in support of the law.”</p>
<p>As  for whether they’d make political statements through their deals again,  Ms. Sheehan said: “I would say as a company we shy away from such  things. We’re not in the business of talking about issues—but in this  one case, we feel strongly.” She cited Gilt City’s president Nathan  Richardson, and his presence on The Observer’s New Power Gays list. “This is a very human issue. It’s about equality. Everyone should support this belief,” she said.</p>
<p>ddaddario@observer.com :: @DPD_</p>
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		<title>Crowd Source Oppo-Research Project on Ruben Diaz Releases Findings; Diaz Fights Back</title>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 21:24:03 -0400</pubDate>
					<link>http://observer.com/2010/08/crowd-source-opporesearch-project-on-ruben-diaz-releases-findings-diaz-fights-back/</link>
			<dc:creator>David Freedlander</dc:creator>
				
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://nyoobserver.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/20081111_ruben_250x250.jpg" />The pro-marriage equality group <a href="http://truthaboutdiaz.com/truths">Fight Back New York</a> is out today with the findings from a crowd-sourcing project devoted to digging up dirt on anti-gay marriage state Senator Ruben Diaz.</p>
<p>Among the items available at truthaboutdiaz.com include the fact that:</p>
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<li>Diaz was investigated by the FBI</li>
<li>Diaz was arrested for possession of heroing and marijuana</li>
<li>Diaz sent $250,000 to the Christian Community Benevolent Association, an organization that he founded.</li>
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<p>The approach by Fight&nbsp; Back NY--using their supporters to dig up dirt on a political opponent--was something of a novel one and there is not that much here that is new.</p>
<p>Still, when asked to respond to the group's fighting, Diaz said he was amused.</p>
<p>"I'm laughing. They are in love with me. I am driving them crazy...They are making fools of themselves. They are raising money off of my name, so they should thank me...They should contribute money to my campaign so they can have somebody to keep shooting at."</p>
<p>Diaz was in fact arrested on <a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/archives/ny_local/2002/10/10/2002-10-10_espada__diaz_spar_over_bust_.html">drug charges back in the 1960's,</a> and said that he was a lot more charitable about past mistakes than his opponents, especially Charlie Ramos, who is running hard against Diaz with the backing of Fight Back NY. Ramos, who was an aide to former city Comptroller Bill Thompson, has also been arrested on drug charges.</p>
<p>"I believe in second chances. Because I got a second chance myself 42 years ago, that's what I do as a pastor, as a preacher. I give people second chances...So when Charlie Ramos came out of my jail my son [Bronx Borough President Ruben Diaz, Jr]&nbsp; and I, we gave him a second chance. We the Diazes placed him with Billy Thompson. That is the only job he got since he got out of jail--because we gave it to him...And then he turned on me, but I will continue to pray for him, and I will continue giving second chances to everybody that I can."</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://nyoobserver.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/20081111_ruben_250x250.jpg" />The pro-marriage equality group <a href="http://truthaboutdiaz.com/truths">Fight Back New York</a> is out today with the findings from a crowd-sourcing project devoted to digging up dirt on anti-gay marriage state Senator Ruben Diaz.</p>
<p>Among the items available at truthaboutdiaz.com include the fact that:</p>
<ul>
<li>Diaz was investigated by the FBI</li>
<li>Diaz was arrested for possession of heroing and marijuana</li>
<li>Diaz sent $250,000 to the Christian Community Benevolent Association, an organization that he founded.</li>
</ul>
<p>The approach by Fight&nbsp; Back NY--using their supporters to dig up dirt on a political opponent--was something of a novel one and there is not that much here that is new.</p>
<p>Still, when asked to respond to the group's fighting, Diaz said he was amused.</p>
<p>"I'm laughing. They are in love with me. I am driving them crazy...They are making fools of themselves. They are raising money off of my name, so they should thank me...They should contribute money to my campaign so they can have somebody to keep shooting at."</p>
<p>Diaz was in fact arrested on <a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/archives/ny_local/2002/10/10/2002-10-10_espada__diaz_spar_over_bust_.html">drug charges back in the 1960's,</a> and said that he was a lot more charitable about past mistakes than his opponents, especially Charlie Ramos, who is running hard against Diaz with the backing of Fight Back NY. Ramos, who was an aide to former city Comptroller Bill Thompson, has also been arrested on drug charges.</p>
<p>"I believe in second chances. Because I got a second chance myself 42 years ago, that's what I do as a pastor, as a preacher. I give people second chances...So when Charlie Ramos came out of my jail my son [Bronx Borough President Ruben Diaz, Jr]&nbsp; and I, we gave him a second chance. We the Diazes placed him with Billy Thompson. That is the only job he got since he got out of jail--because we gave it to him...And then he turned on me, but I will continue to pray for him, and I will continue giving second chances to everybody that I can."</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>"</p>
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